What’s the best thing about your faith, Ram?
Hinduism is a very complex and sussed-out religion. Whatever questions life throws at me, Hinduism seems to have an answer.
Hinduism is also a very diverse and open-minded religion and that freedom suits me – personally and professionally. As a fashion designer, keeping creative means drawing inspiration from as many sources as possible. It’s the secret to staying ahead of the competition. Fortunately, my faith trained me to absorb eclectic influences from a very early age.
Personally, I draw enormous strength from knowing that I am part of a religion that values differences and encourages me to embrace diversity. I also love Hindu art and the way it celebrates life. As a child, I was absolutely fascinated by paintings of Hindu gods and goddesses. People say they love the way my religion influences my ranges by celebrating life.
Naresh, how close is your family to other members of the Hindu community where you live?
We’ve always been very close to the Hindu community. Apart from anything else,
I’m vice president of our local Hindu Association. My work enables me to give something back to a community that has always been a great source of support to all of us for a long time.
Ram, how do your friends react when you talk to them about your faith?
They tend to know of my faith and my ethnic background. As a result, they accept me for who and what I am. Discussing my faith has always been a very positive experience. Is that the same for you, Dad?
Naresh It is now, but bear in mind that I am from a different generation. Over the past 20 years or so I have worked with many people of different faiths, various ethnic backgrounds and many heritage languages.
In general they have all been of the view that Hindus are a very peaceful and caring a group of people. As such, they have positive views about Hindus.
What are some of the biggest misunderstanding about your faith?
Naresh: I find it rather difficult when people refer to Asians. The term does not differentiate between the continent’s numerous ethnic and faith communities. Hindus have a unique culture, languages, music, arts, and much more. These elements combined with our basic human values are all very important to us.
Which Hindus you’ve met have had the biggest influence on your life?
Ram: My father and mother.
And you dad?
Naresh: Ditto. Our family left India many generations ago. Having settled in Africa, it was a shock to loose everything and have to start again in Britain after the 1968 exodus from Kenya. My parents worked long hard hours, but kept the faith and also ensured that each of their children got their love and attention. They showed me what it is to be a Hindu in the practical sense.
Is there anything you read when you’re looking for inspiration?
Ram: That’s easy: the words of Mahatma Gandhi. He was such an amazing man that his teachings and philosophy are bigger than any single religion. They’re universal.
Naresh: People sometimes forget that Gandhi was also very funny when he wanted to be. Remember his response when someone asked him what he thought of western civilisation? He said: “I think it would be a very good idea.”
Ram: Here’s a tip: if you need a lift during the day, just log onto Google, do a search for Gandhi quotes and you’ll feel restored in no time.
